(I choose question No.3)
Indeed, sometimes I got impression on people, which was different even far away from who they really are. On that first day of class, all students were required to introduce ourselves to everybody who we had never seen but would learn together for three years. There are two people who should be mentioned as really good examples to explain the illusory first impression approved wrong later. A boy who went up to the teaching flat shyly speakinglessly and unconfidently portray a typical figure less likely to socialize with others. However, a girl wearing fashionably speaking fast and confidently with some friendly gestures conveyed a probability that such girl would be more outgoing and involve in the group actively. Although they represented as students with certain personality, the getting along for months disconfirmed the first shot of layout of themselves. The boy actually chatted more often and easygoing with friends, while the girl tended to be quieter than the introduction and what we supposed her to be, although the girl got more opportunities of making friends than the boy, for the overwhelming impression as the article stated out.
Similarly, it is hard to be perfect in others impression for me, even though I pay attention on my behavior and talking so that hold the crucial first few minutes. I asked my American friend gotten to know less than two weeks what information of who I was I transmitted to him, when he saw me first time. He frankly told me that I was look like one with more than 6 trillion brain cells and love nothing except study, for I was always met with books in hands. He vary the bias gradually when he and some others asked me if I went to party with them and I said "yes". I have read some articles including some advices about how to handle the first few minutes to impress a strange and been following, despite some exceptions generating misunderstanding first.
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